Sunday, December 12, 2010

Romance ebooks

My brother sent me this article.

Lusty Tales and Hot Sales: Romance E-Books Thrive

Sarah Wendell, blogger and co-author of “Beyond Heaving Bosoms,” is passionate about romance novels.
Except for the covers, with their images of sinewy limbs, flowing, Fabio-esque locks or, as she put it, “the mullets and the man chests.”
“They are not always something that you are comfortable holding in your hand in public,” Ms. Wendell said.
So she began reading e-books, escaping the glances and the imagined snickers from strangers on the subway, and joining the many readers who have traded the racy covers of romance novels for the discretion of digital books.
If the e-reader is the digital equivalent of the brown-paper wrapper, the romance reader is a little like the Asian carp: insatiable and unstoppable. Together, it turns out, they are a perfect couple. Romance is now the fastest-growing segment of the e-reading market, ahead of general fiction, mystery and science fiction, according to data from Bowker, a research organization for the publishing industry.
Publishers and retailers, spying an opportunity, have begun pursuing in earnest those enthusiastic romance readers who have abandoned print for digital.
“Romance,” said Matthew Shear, the executive vice president and publisher of St. Martin’s Press, which releases 40 to 50 romance novels each year, is “becoming as popular in e-books as it is in the print editions.”
When “Maybe This Time,” a lighthearted ghost romance by the best-selling author Jennifer Crusie, went on sale in August, it sold as many e-books as hardcover books in its first week, Mr. Shear said, a phenomenon that he began noticing this summer with other romance titles.
At All Romance, an online retailer that sells only e-books, sales have more than doubled this year, and the most sought-after titles are usually the raciest.
“It’s easier to check out some naughty little title online than in a brick-and-mortar store where your pastor could step up in line behind you,” said Barb Perfetti, the chief financial officer of All Romance. “We’ve had lots of customers write to us and say, ‘Now I don’t always have to show my husband what I’m reading.’ ”
Barnes & Noble, the nation’s largest bookstore chain, is courting romance readers more aggressively than ever. William Lynch, the chief executive, said in an interview that until recently Barnes & Noble was a nonplayer in the huge romance category, but that it now has captured more than 25 percent of the market in romance e-books. Sometime next year, he said, he expects the company’s e-book sales in romance to surpass its print sales.
“This is a new business for us,” Mr. Lynch said. “Romance buyers are buying, on average, three books a month. That buyer is really, really valuable.”
Dominique Raccah, the publisher and chief executive of Sourcebooks, an independent publisher in Naperville, Ill., said her romance e-book sales had grown exponentially this year, outpacing any other category. In the first quarter 8 percent of total romance sales at Sourcebooks were from e-book sales. By the third quarter that number had gone up to 27 percent. (Major trade publishers say e-books now make up about 9 to 10 percent of overall sales.) “You’re seeing the real development of a market,” Ms. Raccah said.
Romance is a natural leader here. The genre took off in the 1980s, when it expanded from the typical dreamy or bodice-ripping historical novels to include contemporary, plot-driven stories with characters drawn from real life. (Happy endings, though, are still required.) In 2009, when more than 9,000 titles were published, romance fiction generated $1.36 billion in sales, giving it the largest share of the overall trade-book market, according to the Romance Writers of America, which compiles statistics on romance books.
Nearly 75 million people read at least one romance novel in 2008, the group said. (Ms. Wendell and her co-author, Candy Tan, wrote in “Beyond Heaving Bosoms” that romance novels are “easily the most-hidden literary habit in America.”)
Romance readers tend to be women ages 31 to 49 who are — contrary to the popular image of Miss Lonelyhearts living vicariously through fictional tales of seduction — in a romantic relationship, according to the writers group. They frequently fly through a book or more a week, and from the beginning they have jumped at the chance to store hundreds of titles on a single device — where the next happy ending is a download away.
Print sales of romance novels are still strong at retailers like Wal-Mart and Target. But Mr. Lynch of Barnes & Noble predicted that chain drugstores like CVS and Duane Reade would eventually decrease the shelf space devoted to print books.
It is difficult to predict what expanding e-book sales will do to print sales in the long term. Kelly Gallagher, the vice president for publishing services for Bowker, said that e-book sales were “definitely cannibalizing print,” a prospect that worries publishers. But some, like Random House, are rushing to convert their backlist books into digital form to the delight of romance readers, who tend to be fiercely loyal to authors. Harlequin Enterprises has digitized nearly 10,000 titles, dating back to 2002.
“Once a romance reader acquires an author they love, they will often go in and buy all the backlist,” said Allison Kelley, executive director of the Romance Writers of America. “When books were out of stock or out of print, they were hard to find. But e-books have changed all that.”
Kathryn Popoff, vice president for trade book merchandising for Borders, said backlist titles were especially popular with romance readers because the print books had such a short shelf life in stores — usually only a month.
“If you missed it, you have an opportunity to go back to the Borders site and download that book,” she said.
To pursue these readers Barnes & Noble has started a “romance store” for its Nook Color, a new dedicated e-reader that the company is marketing heavily to women. Some publishers have tried to hook readers by selling the first book in a series for as little as $2.99 — a discount from the more typical $5 or $8 for the most popular romance e-books on BN.com, for example. (The price for a mass-market paperback is often about the same as its digital version.)
Small-press publishers that specialize in romance e-books have popped up in recent years, along with Web sites that exclusively sell digital books, like All Romance. Last summer Harlequin created Carina Press, an imprint that specializes in digital romance books.
“We want to make it super convenient for readers to access that material however they choose to do it,” said Donna Hayes, the chief executive of Harlequin.
Even if, lately, many of the e-book versions of romances arrive without a cover. Jane Litte, the pseudonym of an Iowa lawyer who writes the popular romance blog Dear Author (dearauthor.com), said she had noticed that about half of the romance novels she downloaded had their covers missing.
“It’s an irritant,” she said, blaming publishers for not securing the digital rights for cover art. “I don’t love the covers, but I’d rather have them than not have them.”

Patti Olesik, a.k.a. Patti Mann

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Monday, September 6, 2010

To Dream or Not? Is It Worth It?

As you can tell by the title of this post, I'm enduring some frustration.  My pride and joy is writing, whether it be blogging, creating business documents or working on my manuscript.

But what do you do when someone close to you believes what you do is trash?  Not 'trashy' but absolute garbage.  In their eyes, the only publications of worth are NON-fiction.  How do you get past the resentment, the pain and discouragement?

I've talked with a few friends today about this matter.  In answer to their advice, one thing I'm going to do is commit to journaling every night.  Once I make a commitment, I'm bound and determined to keep it, so this is a good task.

Second, now that school is starting and my days start just as early as everyone else in the house, I will devote my mornings to writing my manuscript.  This way, it won't take time away from the family.

Of course, I could take advantage of the fact the someone close to me is going away on a business trip tomorrow until late Friday.  However, to be fair, I'm going to try and plan my writing for the long term - which means the mornings after the others go off to school and work will be best for my creativity.

Then during the lunch hours I'll be back at my paid job of hostessing.  Once I arrive home, I can devote my time to doing the household chores and family time.

I have to admit, I never learned to manage three kids at once, plus my husband.  I do best when it's one-on-one.  One is off at college (my most time-consuming child because he was so active in school), the other is still away with his girl-friend's family in Colorado.  He is coming home at the end of the month.  I have missed him every day, as he is my best friend.  My third child is entering eleventh grade, yet is not so active in school.  When she comes home at the end of the day, she likes to relax and unwind.  This year, however, I'm going to enlist her in the planning and executing dinners in preparation for some day living on her own.  (Should have done this with the oldest too, LOL)

Enough of my ranting.  The moral to this blog?  If you have a dream, you'll find a way to make it come true.  Is it worth it?  Without a doubt.  What's life without 

Patti Olesik, a.k.a. Patti Mann

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Monday, August 16, 2010

Welcoming New Possibilities

Thank you for the post regarding 'cloud computing.'  It was a welcomed addition to my method of saving my manuscripts.  I've been transcribing my work from the computer to hard copy, but as we all know, it's time-consuming.  Having my work available from any computer is a treat.

I have yet to meet my goal for the month, 'write a new chapter for IT.'  The chapter has an opening and that's all.  One of my ideas for one scene needed more research.  Luckily I have a underused source of trivia, my lawyer brother, Mike.  He collects interesting information like quotes from a wide range of public figures.  One phone call and I have several search ideas yet to put to use.  They'll be the next step after completing this blog.

Inspiration for our writing is all around us.  We need to be open to receiving it, or even recognizing it.  Our days should begin with a prayer to open our eyes, ears and hearts to the world around us to guide us along our manuscripts.

Patti Olesik, a.k.a. Patti Mann

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Friday, July 30, 2010

Getting Back on Track

It's been some weeks since I last worked on my manuscript.  What blocked me?  Me!  I got too tired or too busy to find the time to sit down and create.

Yes, I was taking care of my son after his surgery.  However, that didn't stop me from working,  There were many occasions I could find to slip away for an hour or so to set up my computer and get down to business.

The change happened when even that schedule was interrupted when we went to Tennessee.  Staying in a hotel room with 4 adults, and all my son's medical paraphernalia cluttering any flat surface, it was hard to work.  Also, we were at a conference, so there were many people we knew and visited with.  Needless to say, I was very busy, just not on my manuscript.

Once we arrived home, it's been difficult to get back to normal.  Only home two weeks, and was off again for a post-surgical visit in Delaware.  Have been home a week now, and really need to get back to my manuscript.  It's nagging me and making me cranky.  (Of course, if you call me on that, I'll deny everything! :D)

So, to get started, I put myself on the roster for reader at TWRP.  I do need to finish that prelim tonight!  After that, I'll bring a notebook with me tomorrow when I take my daughter to Stonybrook near Dansville for a few hours with her friend.  I can insert a few chapters to my working story.  It's taken a different direction right now, so I need to see where it's going to take me.

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Monday, July 26, 2010

Wandering No More...For Now

Just came home from a post-surgery check up for Stephen.  His bones are healing nicely.  The surgeon says the pins can come out at the end of August.

The only problem is, Stephen is supposed to be moving in to his college dorm right around the time of the surgery.  I wonder what arrangements we'll need to make.

Home never looked so good.  Thank God I have a wonderful daughter who decided to do some cleaning while I was away.  I'm still looking for everything she 'put' away. :D

Now that I am home for about a month, I need to take this time to catch up on my writing, reorganizing the house, and catching up with friends.  However, today's list is more geared to taking care of the kids.

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Tuesday, July 13, 2010

To Share or Not to Share

Recently was reminded of the fragility of peace on open public forums.  I posted a new profile picture with the lyrics of a song as the caption.  Was it unfitting for someone my age?  I didn't think so.

We have to remember when we participate in such public forums everything we post, whether it be pictures, links or words, it's there for all to see and comment on.  One negative comment was posted and all my other 'friends' jumped all over the person.  So NOT the intention of posting the picture.

So what has this meant to me?  Do I need to think more carefully about what I'm going to post?  Maybe.  Is this incident serious enough to really worry about?  I don't know.  I'm upset my friends are at odds over it, but the act itself was an innocent way of celebrating my weight loss and being able to be happy to have pictures of myself seen again.

I would like to know your opinion.  Should we be more careful of what we post, or am I'm worrying over nothing?

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Thursday, July 1, 2010

Home Sweet Home

Those words never meant more to me than they do now.  I've been away from home almost as long as I was two years ago, but it will be even longer when we head off to a conference.  What does this mean to me?

All those little things I was able to do without preparation are a luxury right now.  Everything I do has to be scheduled around strut turns, medication times and mobility availability.  Taking everyday life for granted is no more.  The care and attention my son, Stephen, needs is more important than anything frivolous, unnecessary trip or errand I want to take.

That's right.  I said 'want.'  All those little trips to Walmart, Goodwill or the mall were essentially frivolous.  There was nothing I really needed, or wanted even, to necessitate the frequent trips.  They were all reasons to get out of the house.

I've been 'out-of-the-house' for over a month and will be out for another ten days or so.  Yes, we do come home today, but only for 24-36 hours.  Then it's load up the car for four people to stay in a hotel for ten days, travel for fourteen days.  There's no room in the van now for two of us, with the wheelchair and all the paraphernalia we've accumulated to care for Stephen in the last month.

I miss my meetings, my friends, even work.  I miss work because it gave me a place to be without family, yet still be out in the world for a more constructive purpose.  This summer will be less enjoyable without being able to do all this, unless I learn to accept my life as it is now and embrace all the quality moments with my family.

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Saturday, June 26, 2010

Write On Rochester Conference 2010

PERMISSION TO FORWARD:

You are invited to join us for an intensive day of interactive workshops with award winning, best selling writer, Jessica Andersen.
                       Write On Rochester!


sponsored by Lilac City-Rochester Writers
location:  the Inn at the Radisson, Rochester, New York*
Fee:  $80.00** [non-LCRW members] includes Friday's book signing and speaker chat; Saturday lunch, hors d'oeurves rec eption, and book signing.

* a group of rooms has been reserved for attendees. To register, call 1-800-395-7046 OR 1-585-475-1910. mention Lilac City Rochester Writers to obtain the discount.

**Discount for students with appropriate ID

Date:
September 17 & 18, 2010
Featured Speaker:  best-selling author, Jessica Andersen.

Workshops: A Writer's Journey; World Building; Pump Up Your Writing***

***Bring one scene, no more than 250 words, for Jess' input and expertise.

An acquiring editor from the Wild Rose Press will be available to take pitches.

FMI: www.lcrw.org or registration chair KatHenryDoran@Frontiernet.net

Patti Olesik, a.k.a. Patti Mann

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Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Recovery III

What's new with me?  Steve is doing much better now that they've taken out the k-wires near his knees.  Enough to let me leave and come home for a few days.  My brave boy is an inspiration to me and everyone around him.

The legs are still not as straight as the doctor wants them to be, so we're still cranking those struts until next Tuesday.  This is done to two struts per leg in the morning, another two in the afternoon and the last two before bed.

Got great news tonight.  He went twelve hours without getting another pain pill.  For someone who was constantly checking with me for when his next dose was due, this is a tremendous feat.  Today was not as good for my husband.  His phone sent Steve's call to voice mail while he was checking his voice messages.  Steve was so worried, he called the desk at the house for someone to go look for his dad in the dining room. LOL!! 

I have to understand my boy is feeling more vulnerable than we've ever experienced with him.  This is hard to grasp and we sometimes tend to take it lightly.  However, it's a serious issue with Steve and we have to be very careful to keep the lines of communication open when we're not in the near vicinity.

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Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Recovery Part II

My son, Steve, is slowly recovering from his bilateral tibia/fibular osteotomy with application of Taylor Spatial Frames.  This is his opinion.  The opinion of the medical professionals - his orthopedist and physical therapists - is that he's moving along rapidly and with great improvement.  His recovery speed is up to him.

I, myself, see improvement in his walk, his ability to maneuver between the chair and bed, as well as his mental state.  He's holding up pretty well, but is upset when he encounters what he considers set-backs.  These would be the temporary inflammation of the pin sites, or stiffness of his knees.  This is to be expected with this type of surgery.  However, Steve wants to be well and on crutches NOW.  He's beginning to see how 'human' he really is.

The hardest part of all this is learning to hold my tongue.  Steve's feeling things he's never felt before, and not just physically.  He's feeling vulnerable.  With vulnerability comes harsh words, snapping and general crabbiness.  In such close quarters, it's hard to not react or respond back with equal venom.

We stop turning the struts on the frames Saturday night.  That would be twenty days of turning 6 struts.  Hopefully as the bones knit together, he'll be in less pain and find his mental equilibrium again.

More again next week.

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Monday, June 7, 2010

Recovery

Recovery comes in many forms.  It's the healing of the mind, body and spirit.  My son, Steve, is recovering from surgery on his legs.  This will be a long process, as we adjust the struts holding the bones to either lengthen them in one direction and shorten them in another.  All this to make his legs straight so he can walk, run and play without pain.  The recovery isn't and won't be without its share of pain.

We have intermittent times of pleasure when he's feeling fit and without much pain.  Our time together is enjoyable.  Then there are the days where the pain sets in, and it's hard to walk or even move.  These are the days when prayer is all that gets me through them.  When he's in pain, he lashes out and I'm usually the closest target.  What I need to remember is he's in pain and really doesn't mean it.  I need to let it go and stay calm and not react.

Not reacting is the hardest thing.  Every action has a reaction.  We've been taught that all our lives.  Yet, reacting is not necessarily the best thing to do in some cases.  Sometimes we need to think and decipher if a reaction is appropriate.  What a hard lesson.

So far, Steve's progress is good.  He's impressing the physical therapy staff with his achievements.  However, some of these achievements come with a price of soreness and stiffness the next day or two.  Today we start our second week of therapy with the pool session.  He really likes that because he can usually walk without assistance.

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Thursday, June 3, 2010

Post-Surgery Blues

It's been a little over a week since my son's surgery.  He's doing wonderfully, making great strides in his recovery.  There are some drawbacks, however.  The pain medication made him sleep all the time, so he decided to back off on the dosage.  This was great at helping him stay awake, but sitting for long periods of time were never his strong suit.

He's impatient to get up and moving, but the long periods in bed, in the wheelchair or in the arm chair tend to make his knees stiff, his legs sore and swollen.  Naturally, this frustrates him and he lashes out.  The target usually is me, his mother.  I try my best to help him move, but if he snaps at me, I may move too quickly or with jerky motions.  This causes pain and he talks as if I'm intentionally hurting him on purpose.

I know intellectually he's just venting, but with the stress and strain of longs days keeping him company and pushing his wheelchair up and down the steep walkway between the Ronald McDonald House and the hospital, my nerves are strained as well.  All I can do is pray to God and his best friend to help him through his frustration and to keep us both sane.  It hurts when he tells me he's scared for what'll happen when his dad goes back home for a few days.  He's afraid I'll just keep hurting him and put all his hard work in physical therapy back weeks, not days.

So I want to thank all my friends for all their support and ask that you bear with me through this.  I'll be making more phone calls than I have lately, you can be sure of it.  It's so heartbreaking I'm almost tempted to talk with the RMH social worker about finding someone for me to talk things over with.  My husband isn't much help in that department.

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Sunday, May 30, 2010

Steve's First Day at RMH

Today was Steve's first day at the Ronald McDonald House.  He's doing so well.  You should have hear him rave about the shower!  Said it felt wonderful to be able to just sit under the never-ending warm spray and feel him muscles relax.  He could have stayed in there forever, but his hunger won out.

He doesn't have much of an appetite yet.  We think it's because his pain medicine makes him sleepy pretty quickly and for the full dose period.  So before he takes them, he tries to get some exercise, such as having his dad and I manipulating his legs, and then walking with the walker to the bathroom.

I can't believe the progress he's made in less than a week.  Everyday he goes longer and farther with the walker and wheelchair.  His upper body strength is impressive and necessary to his recovery.  Hopefully he'll let me take some pictures and post them soon.

Patti Olesik, a.k.a. Patti Mann

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Friday, May 28, 2010

Stephen Walked Today!

My son, Steve, had surgery on both his legs this past Tuesday.  He's been getting up into a wheelchair since Weds.  Today he was fitted with a walker.  What that boy has been putting up with, I don't know where he finds the strength.

The morning session with the walker was a wash because it took too long to fit it properly.  It should have been done before his feet hit the floor.  He struggled through a lot of pain better than most people in his position would.  Needless to say, he took a long nap after that.

This afternoon, he said his goal was to walk to the bathroom.  He did it!  It took forever, with me crying inside at his grunts and groans.  Yet, when Steve is determined, he gets it done.  I'm so proud of him and envy his conviction to see this through with as little complaint as possible since it was his decision to do the procedure.

He is an inspiration to his nursing staff, physical therapy staff and family of another patient having the same surgery.  Thank you God for blessing me with a great kid.

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Thursday, April 1, 2010

My Goals Score

Didn't get any time in the office today. It wasn't a total wash though. Met with a couple of friends to go over one off manuscripts and brainstorm on a different story waiting in the wings.

Work went well and the weather was so nice it was hard to have a bad day.

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Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Daily Update

After all my plans of working on my office everyday, I have yet to do so. I've been running around with kids and shopping. I'd be better off without the shopping:)

Tomorrow I'm meeting some friends for brainstorming and reading our work. I can't wait to get back into the swing if things.

Need to get back in my office to clear off my desk. Was looking for something and switched out my purse, dumping everything on the desk. What a mess. I really need to stop seeing any clear space as a dumping ground.

I'll be back tomorrow with the next installment.

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Monday, March 29, 2010

My Day Today

Today has already started with a deviation from my schedule. Before doing a task, I MUST remember to SET my alarm. I'm off by 30 minutes, and I even deviated from that by switching events around. However, I'm back online with my day.

I've already finished the chores I wanted to do before work, so I can work in my office until it's time to go. The only thing left to do is pack a few of past critiques of my manuscript to take to work. By past, I mean critiques from over 9 years ago. It's been that long since I've been at my desk.

Just remembered I have to finish a read for TWRP, so I'm going to cut this post short and get some time in on the read.

Friday, March 26, 2010

Where Did Spring Go?

Brrr. When I took my son to school this morning, I didn't expect the car doors to be frozen. What happened to that 50 degree weather we had last week. I don't know if I can take the cold much longer.

I've cleared out a corner in our sun room at the back of the house for my office space. It was my office about 10 years ago, but became the junk room once my daughter arrived. Now that I'm determined to finish at least on of my books this year, I've decided I need my office back.

Let me tell you, it's darn cold out here. There is an electric baseboard heater across the room, but it's too expensive to use it. So I have a small space heater which is fired up behind me. It takes a lot of time to heat up my corner because the whole room is about 400 sq. ft. Thank God my daughter gave me a Snuggly for Christmas. It's getting a lot of use out here.

The only thing is, my fingers get cold really fast and make typing a challenge. But what is life without its challenges, right?! I can say I'm a 'suffering' writer instead of a 'struggling' writer. Makes me sound more eccentric. I love being eccentric, though my family wishes I would just blend into the woodwork.

My office has its advantages. It's outside of the main house (the sun room is basically a deck that was walled-in and added on to the back of the house). Yes, there is a window directly in front of my desk, but I hope to find some sort of curtain arrangement to cover that. As it is, the traffic around me when I'm working is non-existent. Yipee! That was the most important element I was striving for.

Now it's off to my real job (lunchtime hostess at a family restaurant) and then I'll be able to work on my dream job (writing) later.

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Spring is in the Air!

What a glorious week we've had. Those winter blues have been chased right away by all the sunshine. It's supposed to turn winter again next week, but only for a short time.

With the Easter season upon us, I tend to reflect on life's cycles - birth, existence and death. It hasn't been too hard to do that lately with the death of a wonderful young man. Yet, as I remember his funeral, the family decided to celebrate his life and Easter instead of mourn. Easter lilies filled the church, the sight bringing comfort to those of us who believe.

My personal metamorphosis is still an ongoing event. Yes, I have lost over 100 pounds, but I'm not finished. My body is still working to adjust to the dramatic reduction in mass, so there are plenty of gaps, sags, and all around mushing and rumblings as my skin and muscles shrink and attempt to return to their original shapes.

This change in me isn't only in the physical. I'm discovering I have more energy, and a cleansing of clutter and a spree of reorganization is taking place as well. I used to have a desk in our sun-room (a deck the former owners enclosed into a nice paneled addition). As I cleared the surface, imagine the shock of seeing the blotter calendar from 2001! it's been that long since I've really worked on my manuscripts.

Well, today - day 4 of cleaning/clearing - I wiped the cobwebs down from the walls and ceiling around my corner, washed the desk top and have set up a new, current calendar alongside my lap top. It is now an inviting place where I can escape from the family and write to my hearts content. Still have to find a curtain to place over the window directly behind my laptop. Could use some ideas as it's a casement window that opens out into my space (remember I said it used to be an old deck, so the window opens from the kitchen out)

I still have a few more days worth of sorting two file drawers and a bookcase to maximize my filing and resource centers. If anyone has suggestions on reference books that have helped them advance toward publication of their work, please let me know. I'm going to beg, borrow or steal from my husband to outfit my space to MY satisfaction - not his. He still thinks my book is garbage (he only reads non-fiction, and DIY books)

Okay, enough of my ramblings. At least I can say I've been meeting my blog commitments. Now to finish those first 10 chapters of Invisible Ties :-P

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Thursday, March 11, 2010

Happy Days!!

Yesterday was the first day with my newly revised daily regime. My son, Steve, put a kink in the old regime by signing up for track and field. Instead of picking him up at 3pm, I now need to pick him up at 5. Thanks, Steve, for putting a crimp in my day. At least I'm saner than I used to be and can adjust reasonably well to these little hiccups.

Last night forced hubby on a date night. Remind me not to be so pushy about it. I forget that what starts out to be a nice evening discussing family matters in a calm, well-meaning manner turns into a haranguing tirade about all the problems we are facing. I really don't need that, but I guess that's what having a partner is all about.

So now here's the reason for the title of this blog. Today was weigh-in day. Remember that last month, I had a 'zero' result month. Drum-roll please! I lost 9.5 pounds in the last month and have a grand total loss of...

Are you ready for it?

You'd better sit down!

A grand total loss of.....107.5 pounds!!!!!! This loss is over 19 months!

Picture me taking a bow :)

Now I just need to achieve my writing goal before the next meeting and I'm on my way to being a success in life :)

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Friday, February 26, 2010

Why Is Saying Goodbye So Hard?

This past week as been a roller coaster ride of emotions.  The life of a wonderful young man ended tragically last Friday.  By the grace of God, my son decided not to accompany this young man to ski practice and was not in the car at the time of the accident.

How do you deal with the grief that hides deep in his soul?  I think we've found a way that suits him.  I just need to sit back and keep my eyes and ears open.  All these kids are lucky to have such a closeness among them.  As long as they keep together and just be in the same room - it doesn't matter what they do, even if it's just watching television.  The most important thing is they are together!

Kids today protect the privacy of their feelings in light of this psycho-analyzing culture we live in.  It's hard to leave them to their feelings, but we must - especially with boys.

Everyone in my community was touched by this young man.  His smile was infectious and his manners were impeccable.  He had a heart bigger than anything you can imagine.  My hope is that his legacy of caring and love will live on in his friends.

Today during his funeral, I looked out the windows of the church to see the snow falling in large fluffy flakes - not like the miserable freezing snow of earlier.  I felt a smile blossom as I thought of this young man.  It was his ideal winter weather and I knew he sent it to us as a reminder he was still with us.  Again, tonight as I went to dinner, the sky was clear, the sunset was stunning and all I could think of was he was sending us this calming atmosphere to tell us he was watching over us.

You were my third 'son' Peter.  I love you and miss you and I know you'll be Steve's guardian angel from now on.

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Saturday, January 2, 2010

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